Just some advice…………after spending 9 hours as a passenger instead of a flight attendant over the weekend (PS--- I wrote this awhile ago)……….I decided to share my wisdom as a flight attendant as a passenger that is really a flight attendant.........
First: clothing……….always wear layers as aircraft temperatures are prone to fluctuation and you want to be ready for any situation possible.
IF you want to "nest" or "build a fort" during your flight decide early and grab your pillows and blankets as you take your seat.
Always bring at least a small bottle of water especially if you are prone to thirst……..during the flight you will only be given enough water for survival, not necessarily for comfort……….also be sure to eat before you fly. The flight probably will not have a meal and even if they do you may not like it and then you will end up pouting convinced you are going to starve to death………this is especially important if your diet includes special needs like you can only eat organic food raised by Buddhists and blessed by a tiny village in Tibet. Most airlines don't carry those types of meals.
Let's talk seating……….if you request an aisle be ready for the responsibilities of that position. As aisle you are the "row leader" you may be expected to distribute drinks, food and gather trash from your fellow seat mates. If you want to take a nap understand that may be interrupted by seat mate bathroom breaks.
If you are by the window be courteous and try to read the non verbal communication from your other seat mates regarding the window shade.
If you are in the middle seat you have no responsibility and just hope you have a good team of seat mates that can help you take on and off your layers without invading their space. As "middle" you should get at least one arm rest and be assertive, its all you've got………you may have to fight for it.
IF you are not in the aisle try to hold bathroom breaks until the "row leader" decides they have to go…..if you can't then try to limit it to one time. If you have to interrupt more than once be sure to have a good excuse: Women….Just tell everyone you are pregnant- Men….you can tell them you have an enlarged prostate. Also, if you are a repeat offender hide the water bottle that I advised you to bring on board.